Shane wanted to get a different loaf than the shop provided and we were in no hurry so he set off and had time to go all the way to the shop beyond the post office and back, when the man and his dog reappeared. He stopped to talk to us over a wide range of topics, what was I knitting, boats, family, birds, life in general. He really did enjoy talking to people and he revealed that his wife had died of cancer only 4 months ago. He was finding it hard to motivate himself some days and living alone wasn’t suiting him. He really needed chats with other people. The place where I had seen him was where he could get phone signal. We chatted over many commonalities with views looking after children, sense of community (what goes around comes around) plumbing issues on boats, being near nature. We decided not to share our ‘recently survived cancer’ story. We took his advice on how to get parcels delivered. We told him about our bird app. It was a long and pleasant exchange. Despite his recent bereavement, the man had a positive attitude to life and people that was keeping him going.