The train was crowded, due to other services being cancelled, but on time and we were able to relax in booked seats, though we had not got them together, and as my lunch was in Shane’s bag and there were a number ofpeople standing between us, it took some time before he was able to get it to me.We messaged each other on the way. When the ticket checking was happening and he had his two together card to show, I advised him that it was not enough to just say I am with the lady down the carriage knitting as I had already seen another woman in a stripey jumper knitting half way down the carriage between us. He would need to say, “the woman in blue, knitting”. I don’t have to check outfits in similar situations, as almost without fail I can say I am with “the man in red”.